Guide for Victims of Sexual
Assault
in Cherokee County, NC
CHEROKEE COUNTY RESOURCE
LIST
In
an EMERGENCY dial 911
All phone numbers are in the (828) area code, unless otherwise noted
REACH Sexual Assault-Domestic Violence
Program 837-8064
Cherokee County Sheriff's Office 837-2589
Murphy Police 837-2214
Andrews Police 321-4224
District Attorney's Office 837-7818
Clerk of Court Office 837-2522
Magistrate's Office 837-8923
Probation and Parole 837-5827
Murphy Medical Center 837-8161
MMC Urgent Care 837-4712
Cherokee County Health Department 837-7486
Department of Social Services 837-7455
WNC Legal Services 389-2399
Smoky Mountain Counseling Center 1-800-849-6127
Rape Victim Assistance Program 1-800-826-6200
Victims Compensation Program 1-800-826-6200
SAVAN
1-800-NC-SAVAN
HIV/AIDS-STD Hotline 1-800-342-2437
HIV/AIDS-STD Hotline (Spanish) 1-800-344-7432
National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE
National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE
Teen Crisis Hotline 1-800-367-7287
30th Judicial District DV-SA Alliance www.30thalliance.org
North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault www.nccasa.org
North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.nccadv.org
Rape Abuse &Incest National Network www.rainn.org
Introduction
A crime may have been committed against
you, a member of your family or someone you know.
This online book is designed to educate the reader
about the laws and criminal court procedures relating
to sexual assault and domestic violence. It also reviews
some of the supportive services available for victims
in the 30th Judicial District. Many different agencies
and individuals may become involved with a sexual
assault or domestic violence case, we set out here
the process and procedures that the various agencies
involved might have.
Not all questions will be answered in
this guide; however, the resource list provides programs
that are available to help with any questions that
the book cannot answer. These are organizations that
work to help victims through the emotional, medical,
and legal decisions involved in dealing with the crime
committed against them. They will not tell a victim
what to do. Instead, they will offer support to victims
and their families during this process that should
help develop hope, healing and recovery.
Any victim of sexual violence in the
30th North Carolina Judicial District (Haywood, Jackson,
Macon, Swain, Graham, Clay and Cherokee Counties)
should be treated with respect and dignity, regardless
of gender, cultural background, age, sexual orientation,
income, cognitive abilities, physical abilities, or
sexual, medical or mental health history.
Sexual violence or domestic violence
are wrong and no one deserves to be, or asks to be,
a victim of such violence. No victim is responsible
for the violence committed against him or her.
We choose to use the word "victim"
in this guide rather than "survivor" because
victims of sexual offenses should not be stigmatized
by their experience any more than victims of other
crimes. The term "victim" includes the parents
of minor children who have been sexually assaulted
as well as the legal guardians of others who have
been assaulted.
VICTIM'S RIGHTS
Under
the North Carolina Constitution and our state laws,
victims of serious crimes are assured of certain rights.
"Serious Crimes" are felonies or serious
misdemeanors involving domestic violence. These can
include crimes committed by juveniles. You have the
following rights as a victim of a serious crime in
North Carolina:
1. The right to be notified
of court proceedings.
2. The right to be present
at all public court proceedings related to the case,
unless the court determines that testimony by the victim
would be materially affected if the victim heard other
testimony at trial.
3. The right to confer
with the assigned district attorney.
4. The right to restitution.
5. The right to information
about the conviction, sentencing, imprisonment, and
release of the offender.
6. The right to know the
availability of services to victims.
7. The right to receive
information about the crime, the process, and availability
of services.
8. The right to information
about available protection from harm or threats of harm
arising out of prosecuting or cooperating with law enforcement.
9. The right to have a
Victim Impact Statement prepared and presented to the
judge for consideration at sentencing.
10. The right to be informed
about plea bargaining procedures, and whether the prosecutor
will recommend a plea agreement.
11. The right to let the
District Attorney's Office know that you object to revealing
your home address during the trial of the perpetrator
and ask the prosecutor to object if he or she can do
so.
12. The right to have
support of a friend, spouse, or crisis counselor during
all court proceedings.
13. The right to privacy.
You do not have to talk to the defendant's attorney,
or anyone else involved in the defense.
14. The right to be notified
of parole, commutation or pardons.
15. Present views and
concerns to the Governor or agency considering any action
that should result in the release of the accused prior
to such action becoming effective.
16. To ask for contact
with the victim's employer to seek the employer's cooperation
with the criminal justice system to minimize the victim's
loss of wages.
17. That family members
be offered all the victims' rights guarantees.
18. The right to request
AIDS & STD testing of assailant upon DA filing a
motion and the Judge entering an order to that effect.
VICTIM'S
COMPENSATION
The state of North Carolina has a program
to reimburse citizens who suffer medical expenses
and lost wages as a result of being an innocent victim
of a crime committed in North Carolina.
WHO IS A VICTIM?
A victim is a person who suffers injury
or death proximately caused by criminally injurious
conduct, that:
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by its nature, poses
a serious threat of personal injury or death
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is punishable by a
fine or imprisonment or death
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does not result from
a violation of the motor vehicle laws, except in
conduct related to Driving While Impaired and Hit
and Run.
A maximum of $30,000 may be paid for
any award. When the victim dies as a result of the
crime in that case, an additional $3,500 may be paid
to the survivors for funeral expenses.
WHO IS ELIGIBLE?
To be eligible a victim:
WHO IS NOT ELIGIBLE?
A
victim:
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who has insurance
that pays the maximum amount authorized by Victims
Compensation
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who does not incur
economic loss within one year, except victims under
the age of 10 at the time of injury, who may be
compensated for economic loss incurred up to two
years after the crime.
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who contributes to
the criminal conduct
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who is the offender
or an accomplice
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who does not cooperate
with the Crime Victims Compensation Commission and
Staff
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whose award would
benefit the offender or their accomplice (except
when interests of justice require)
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who was confined in
a correctional facility when the crime occurred
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who was in the commission
of a crime at the time of the incident.
WHAT MAY NOT BE PAID?
Compensation will not be paid for:
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loss of personal property
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any expense paid by
insurance or other sources
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for pain and suffering,
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injury or loss that
is the result of a violation of motor vehicle laws
other than Driving While Impaired.
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Local Law Enforcement
agencies
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Rape Crisis Center
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Victim/Witness Coordinator
in the DA's Office
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Victim's Compensation
1-800-826-6200 or (919)733-7974
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The Crime Victims
Compensation Commission is the governing body with
the authority to award or deny reimbursement claims.
The Division of Victim and Justice Services administers
the program.
INVESTIGATION OF A CLAIM
Every claim filed with the Commission
will be investigated to determine that:
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a crime was committed
that resulted in physical injury or death;
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the victim did not
contribute to their injuries or sustain the injuries
while engaged in an illegal activity;
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the crime was reported
to law enforcement within 72 hours unless good cause
is shown; and
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the victim (or the
victim's legal representative) cooperated with all
law enforcement agencies and the Victims Compensation
Staff; and
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the victim was not
committing any crime at the time of the incident.
What is response time for payment?
Process time may take several months.
RAPE
Rape is an act of power and control,
in which the victim is humiliated, degraded, and left
with feelings of shame, guilt and anger. If you are
forced against your will to have sex with someone,
that is rape. NC General Statute 14-27 defines rape
and sexual assault as the following:
First Degree Rape - a person
is guilty of rape in the first degree if the person
engages in vaginal intercourse:
1. With a victim who is a child under
the age 13 years and the defendant is at least 12
years old and is at least 4 years older than the victim;
2. With another person by force and
against the will of the other person and; employs
a dangerous or deadly weapon or an article which the
other person reasonably believes to be a dangerous
or deadly weapon; or inflicts serious personal injury
upon the victim or another, by one or more other persons.
Second Degree Rape - a person
is guilty of rape in the second degree if the person
engages in vaginal intercourse with another person:
1. By force and against the will of
the other person; or
2. Who is mentally defective, mentally
incapacitated, or physically helpless, and the person
performing the act knows or should reasonably know
the other person is mentally, or physically helpless.
First Degree Sexual Assault -
a person is guilty of a sexual offense in the first
degree if the person engages in a sexual act:
1. With a victim who is a child under
the age of 13 years and the defendant is at least
12 years old and is at least 4 years older than the
victim.
2. With another person by force and
against the will of the other person, and: (a) employs
a dangerous or deadly weapon or an article which the
other person reasonably believes to be a dangerous
or deadly weapon, or (b) inflicts serious personal
injury upon the victim or another, by one or more
other persons, or (c) the person commits the offense
aided and abetted by one or more other persons.
Second Degree Sexual Assault
- a person is guilty of a sexual offense in the second
degree if the person engages in a sexual act:
1. By force and against the will of
the other person, or;
2. Who is mentally defective, mentally
incapacitated, or physically helpless, and the person
performing the act knows or should reasonably know
the other person is mentally, or physically helpless.
STATUTORY
RAPE
Statutory Rape is a crime in which
a minor is manipulated to engage in intercourse with
someone older. Many victims do not understand this
is a crime because statutory rape considers age difference
and not the consent of the individuals.
NC General Statute 14-27 defines statutory
rape as:
Statutory Rape - a person is guilty
of statutory rape if the person engages in vaginal
intercourse or a sexual act with another person:
1. Who is 13, 14, or 15 years old and
the defendant is at least six years older than the
person except when the defendant is lawfully married
to the person.
2. Who is 13, 14, or 15 years old and
the defendant is more than four but less than six
years older than the person except when the defendant
is lawfully married to the person.
Steps in Reporting Statutory Rape
1. Contact your local Department of
Social Services (DSS), Child Protective Services Division.
DSS will conduct an investigation to determine if
the child is safe and if not, determine how the child
can be better protected.
2. Case is forwarded to the District
Attorney's Office and Law Enforcement. Law Enforcement
investigates to determine if there is enough information
to obtain a warrant.
3. Child's consent to sexual contact
does not eliminate the crime. The lack of consent
is not the crime; the age difference of the perpetrator
is the crime.
REPORTING A RAPE
Reporting a rape allows a victim to
have a voice. Reporting is doing something about the
crime that was committed. Reporting can be done two
different ways:
1. Reporting to Law Enforcement: This
informs law enforcement that a rape has occurred.
Law Enforcement will investigate the assault; however,
the victim can sign a waiver stating that they do
not want to prosecute this crime.
2. Reporting to Law Enforcement with
a request to prosecute: Law enforcement will investigate
the assault. They will work closely with you, the
district attorney's office and other appropriate agencies,
to identify, arrest, and prosecute the person(s) responsible
for committing the assault.
HOSPITAL
PROCESS
It is very important that victims of
sexual assault receive medical treatment. Medical
treatment is essential to victims' physical and emotional
well-being. There may be internal injuries, venereal
disease, or pregnancy to consider after a rape. Evidence
of the rape must be collected by a trained health
professional. Although a rape victim may not want
to prosecute at the time of the assault, it is possible
for the victim to change her mind later. The collected
evidence will be important to the prosecution.
What are the hospital procedures?
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After being assaulted,
you may call ahead to the hospital and let them
know you are coming -- but it is not required. Priority
is to get medical help.
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You should not bathe,
change clothes, urinate, brush teeth, eat or drink.
This can eliminate important evidence, if a prosecution
occurs.
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The Emergency Department
can call the local Domestic Violence-Sexual Assault
program and request that an Advocate come to the
hospital.
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You may bring a change
of clothes to the Emergency Department because clothes
worn during the assault may be taken as evidence.
If you do not have a change of clothes, the Advocate
may be able to provide them.
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You will be escorted
to a private room.
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You will be asked
to sign consent forms. These forms give permission
for the pelvic exam, release of information to law
enforcement.
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A doctor or a Sexual
Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) will perform the physical
exam and use the SBI Rape Kit.
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The medical personnel
will take a brief medical history from the victim.
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During the SBI Rape
Kit, the examiner will check for bruises and other
marks that might be a result from the attack. The
examiner will collect samples for the presence of
sperm and other fluids and various hair samples
from the victim.
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The examiner will
also check for pregnancy. If the assault occurred
within 72 hours, optional medication may be discussed
to prevent pregnancy.
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Victims will be informed
about optional medications to treat sexually transmitted
diseases.
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Follow-up resources
will be discussed before discharge from the hospital.
COURT
PROCEEDINGS
Court can be a very scary situation.
Many victims do not prosecute rapists because of their
fear of court. Better understanding of the court procedures
helps victims decide if prosecution is appropriate.
This information also helps the victim feel more in
control while in the courtroom.
AFTER LAW ENFORCEMENT CHARGES
THE PERPETRATOR, YOU WILL:
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Meet with the District
Attorney (DA) 
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The DA is a lawyer
who prosecutes criminal matters for the State. He
or she will be your lawyer.
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The DA will hear the
facts to determine what charge will go to court,
if any.
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You may ask for a
support person to be there with you. This may include
a family member, friend, or the Victim Advocate.
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The law enforcement
investigator can be present during this meeting.
AFTER THE ACCUSED IS ARRESTED:
First Court Appearance:
YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO BE PRESENT.
1. His/her constitutional rights
2. Charges against him/her
3. Bail amount required before release
4. Right to an attorney
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DA sets hearing to
determine "probable cause."
Probable Cause Hearing:
YOU MAY BE REQUIRED TO BE PRESENT AND TESTIFY.
- Usually 3 weeks after the arrest.
- The Victim/Witness Assistant
will provide the date and time of the hearing and
preparation for court, if needed.
- The defendant will be present
during the hearing.
- DA will try to avoid victim
testimony, however, in some cases, this testimony
is crucial to proceed in the case.
- DA must present enough evidence
for the judge to allow the case to proceed to trial.
- If the judge finds "probable
cause" exists, the case is sent to Superior Court
for trial there.
- The defendant's attorney can
waive the probable cause hearing and the matter will
go automatically forward to the grand jury for indictment.
Grand
Jury:
YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO BE PRESENT.
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This is a jury of
people from the community that meets privately and
considers evidence of possible crimes presented
to them by law enforcement.
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If the grand jury
believes the defendant could have committed the
crime, it returns a "True Bill of Indictment."
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The indictment is
referred to Superior Court.
Arraignment:
YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED
TO BE PRESENT, UNLESS THERE IS A PLEA BARGAIN.
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A superior court judge
reads the charges to the accused.
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Accused enters his/her
plea of guilty or not guilty.
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If the accused pleads
not guilty, a trial date will be set.
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If the accused pleads
guilty or enters into a plea bargain, the judge
will schedule a sentencing hearing or may proceed
directly to sentencing.
Trial:
YOU ARE REQUIRED TO
BE PRESENT AND TESTIFY.
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A jury consists of 12 members
and one alternate.
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The defendant is present
during the entire trial.
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Both sides present
evidence.
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Jury will deliberate
after hearing all evidence.
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Jury will return a
verdict of guilty or not guilty.
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Jury decision must
be unanimous (all must agree).
Sentencing Hearing:
YOU ARE REQUIRED TO BE PRESENT.
Note: The defendant has
3 opportunities to plead guilty before a trial date
is set.
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Tell someone about
the rape. It is an embarrassing and humiliating
crime to discuss; however, talking can be a step
towards rebuilding trust within yourself and in
others.
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Medical attention
is very important for two reasons: your health and
evidence collection.
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Talk to a counselor.
A counselor can help you understand the confusing
feelings you might be having from one moment to
another. They are there to listen and help you decide
the best way for you to deal with the rape. You
do not have to face the crisis and healing alone.
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Trust your instincts.
If you feel unsafe with someone or the environment
trust yourself and your feelings and leave that
person and/or those surroundings.
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To assist family and
friends in understanding your feelings and experiences,
refer them to the Domestic Violence-Sexual Assault
Program. They have helpful information for both
you and your family.
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Recovery is an individual
process and can be slow; begin to heal at your own
pace and take the time you need to regain control
of your own life.
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Start a journal to
provide an outlet for your thoughts and feelings.
A journal can help you express yourself when it
is difficult to verbally communicate your emotions.
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Contact SAVAN and
register for victim notification and information
via telephone on
any status change of the rapist while in custody
(such as release from jail).
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Join a support group
to find support from others going through the tragedy 
of rape.
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Write
a letter to the rapist. It is a way of letting out
your anger towards the rapist. This letter does
not have to be sent. Some victims hold on to the
letter and burn it as a symbol of releasing the
anger.
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If the rape occurred
at your home, rearrange the room where the rape
occurred to decrease the memories associated with
the rape.
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Understand that nightmares
and certain triggers that replay the feelings of
the event are common; you are not going crazy. Find
someone to talk to and help you identify your triggers.
Identifying them can decrease triggers and nightmares
during your recovery.
RAPE VICTIM ASSISTANCE PROGRAM - RVAP
The General Assembly authorized funds in 1981 for
a program to provide financial assistance for victims
of rape, attempted rape, sexual assault or attempted
sexual assault who report the crime within 72 hours
to the proper law enforcement officials. The program
is administered by the Division of Victim and Justice
Services and will provide up to $1,000 for immediate
and short term medical and hospital expenses, including
mental health and ambulance services in the treatment
of a victim of a rape or sexual offense.
Bills are to be filed by the hospital and payments
are made directly to the attending hospital or physician.
The program also will coordinate benefits with any
applicable insurance plan or program.
Ask the emergency
room staff or business office about coverage under
the Rape Victim Assistance Program. If you have questions
or wish additional information, please write or call:
Rape Victim Assistance Program
Division of Victim and Justice Services
P.O. Box 29588
Raleigh, NC 27626-0588
(919) 733-7974 or 1-800-826-6200
STALKING
Stalking is the willful, malicious, and repeated
following and harassing of another person.
Stalking is an action that serves no legitimate purpose
and is intended to harass, annoy, or terrorize the
victim. Stalking tends to leave the victim in fear
of his/her normal surroundings. Victims of stalking
often feel threatened and afraid of the stalker.
Typical Stalking Activities:
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Following or constant
driving by home, work, school, or any place regularly
visited
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Repeated phone calls
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Letters or gifts by
mail
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Vandalism of property
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Unwanted physical
encounters
North Carolina Law:
NC General Statute 14-277.3 defines stalking as:
A person commits the offense of stalking if the
person willfully, on more than one occasion, follows
or is in the presence of another person without legal
purposes and (1) with the intent to cause death or
bodily injury; or (2) with the intent to cause emotional
distress by placing that person in reasonable fear
of death or bodily injury.
DOCUMENTATION OF STALKING BEHAVIOR
1. Notify the local law enforcement and the magistrate's
office. All incidents should be reported to the police.
Request a copy of the report or the incident report
number. Give law enforcement any written correspondence
from the stalker. Make sure you know the name of the
officer involved with each incident.
2. Keep a diary. It will be very helpful to record
dates, times, and witnesses of all stalking incidents.
Obtain names and addresses of witnesses. Write a description
of each incident, what took place, and what was said.
3. Record telephone conversations. Tell the stalker
to stop calling and hang up. Write down the time and
date the stalker called.
4. Take pictures of the stalker if it can be done
safely. Write time, date, and place on the back of
the picture.
5. Keep all correspondence you receive from the stalker
and make a copy of any correspondence you send to
the stalker. Touch the mail as little as possible
to preserve fingerprints.
6.
Tell Everyone. Give friends, co-workers, and neighbors,
a picture or description of the stalker. Ask them
to watch for the stalker and document any time they
see him or her. Ask them to document any of the stalker's
behaviors that they witness.
7. Write down the license plate number and a description
of the vehicle.
8. Do not leave mail in your mailbox. Someone could
read your mail and find out a lot about you. For example:
where your extended family lives, when and where your
next doctor's appointment is, etc.
IMPORTANT SAFETY MEASURES FOR VICTIMS OF STALKING
1. Be alert and aware of your surrounding and what
is happening around you.
2. Vary routes of travel. Change the way you go to
work, home, and even the grocery store.
3. Park in secure and well-lit areas. Ask someone
you know and/or feel safe with to escort you to your
car.
4. Be aware of vehicles following you. If you find
that someone is following you, drive to a police station,
fire department, busy shopping center, and sound the
horn to attract attention.
5. Alert work-site security and/or managers to the
situation. Provide them with a picture or a description
of the stalker.
6. Have law enforcement conduct a security check of
your home to ensure that your house can be locked
up safely.
7. Secure all doors and windows of your vehicle and
your home.
8. Maintain an unlisted phone number. Obtain a Caller
ID and/or answering machine.
9. Treat any verbal or written threat as legitimate.
Call the police or sheriff's office and make sure
you hold onto all documentation.
10. Do not give out personal information to a store
clerk or anyone else where the information can be
overheard. Do not have your phone number on your checks
and try to remove your social security number from
as many items as possible.
11. Develop a safety plan for yourself and family
members in case of emergency. Decide on a safe place
to meet and someone to call if a problem does arise.
Keep the safety plan in a safe place and revise it
anytime your situation changes.
12. Put out the garbage the day it is collected. Garbage
can tell people many things about us, for example:
where we bank, credit card numbers, social security
information,
and where you shop, etc.
CIVIL NO-CONTACT ORDER
As of December 1, 2004 North Carolina General Statute
50C is effective. This law is an act to establish
civil no-contact orders for the protection of individuals
who are victims of unlawful conduct. Unlawful conduct
can include but is not limited to the following definitions:
(1) Abuse. - To physically or mentally harm, harass,
intimidate, or interfere with the personal liberty
of another. (2) Stalking. - To follow on more than
one occasion or otherwise harass without legal purpose
with the intent to place that person in substantial
emotional distress or cause the person reasonable
fear for their safety or the safety of the person's
immediate family or close personal associates. (3)
Sexual conduct. - Any intentional touching, fondling,
or sexual penetration by a person either directly
or through clothing for the purpose of sexual gratification
or arousal. The civil no-contact order also known
as a "50C" usually states that the person
charged with unlawful conduct can not go near the
victim or harass the victim. If the offender violates
the civil no-contact order, it is a misdemeanor criminal
offense and the offender can be arrested.
The Civil No-Contact Order Process:
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The Clerk of Court
Office has the forms. There is no charge and victims
can fill out the forms themselves. If you desire
assistance with filling out the forms and understanding
the civil no-contact order process you can call
the local Domestic Violence - Sexual Assault Program
listed in the resource section of this .
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With a judge's signature
a temporary "Ex Parte" civil no-contact
order may be issued. This temporary order by the
Court provides protection until a hearing date can
be set.
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At the Court hearing
a judge will hear from both the victim and the accused
offender. As victim it may be necessary to explain
to the Court your reasons for needing protection.
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If a civil no-contact
order is found to be needed by a judge, the order
can continue for one year and may be renewed from
year to year.
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Domestic Violence
is not a family secret, it is a crime.
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Domestic Violence
is the use of power and control by one person over
another in an intimate relationship.
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Domestic violence
can lead to serious injury or death.
Types of Domestic Violence:
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Physical - pushing,
shoving, or choking.
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Emotional - insults,
isolation, or threats.
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Sexual - rape and
sexual assault.
If
Law Enforcement is called out on a domestic violence
call:
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They will assess the
evidence of violence and determine the aggressor.
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If violence is found,
they may arrest the abuser. The police do not need
the victim's permission to press charges. This action
is taken so that the victim does not have to make
the decision to press charges.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SAFETY TIPS
While Still In The Home:
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Tell someone about
the domestic violence. It is an uncomfortable situation.
You need someone to understand the danger that you
live with daily. Tell someone who can help you get
to a safe place.
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Take and date pictures
of all bruises or wounds and keep them in a safe
place, or contact your local domestic violence program
to take the pictures for you.
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Have an "emergency
bag" prepared in case you need to leave in
a hurry. Leave it in a safe place away from the
abuser where you can access it.
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Call your local domestic
violence program. They can help you develop a safety
plan to use when the abuse starts.
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Pay attention to names
of abuser's friends, their cars' descriptions, and
locations they frequent.
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Teach your children
how to get help and how to call 911.
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Record the abuser's
employer information.
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Do not use your home
computer to access information about domestic violence,
or about services or supports. Use a friend's or
a public computer.
ITEMS
TO PUT IN YOUR EMERGENCY BAG:
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Driver's License and/or
other forms of identification
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Social Security Numbers,
for entire family
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Birth Certificate-yours
and your children's
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Identification Cards,
EBT Cards
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Immigration papers
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Insurance policies,
both health and car
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Title to car and deed
to house, if possible
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School records of
your children
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Medical records, such
as shot records
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Medications that are
needed daily
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Favorite toys
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Money, Bank Cards,
and Checkbooks. Do not use a checkbook if return
checks are mailed to abuser's home.
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Credit Cards, if they
are in your name
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Change of clothes
for yourself and your children
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Toothbrush and deodorant
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Keys-house and car
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Address book, photos,
diary, and jewelry
After You or the Abuser Leaves The Home:
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Keep in contact with
the domestic violence program. The domestic violence
program can help you develop a safety plan for you
and your children.
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Tell your employer.
Develop a safety plan for your workplace.
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Contact SAVAN and
register for victim notification, if the abuser
is in custody.
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If you get an Order
of Protection, keep it with you at all times.
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Change window and
door locks. Use timers on your lights and radio.
Change the timer often so that your schedule is
not predictable.
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Keep your cell phone
nearby at all times. Program emergency numbers.
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Use different routes
or change your schedule when going to work or school.
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Notify local post
office, phone company, utilities, banks and creditors
and ask them to place a notation on your accounts
restricting address inquiries.
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Have your telephone
number unlisted and screen all calls via Caller
ID or answering machine.
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Consider renting a
Post Office box for your mail.
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If you have children,
consider using the Supervised Visitation-Exchange
Program for safe visitation exchanges or supervised
visits.
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Consider getting a
dog that can help protect you and your home.
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Use different stores
to shop for groceries and regular supplies.
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Keep all family pets
and children's toys out of sight from the road.
If the abuser finds a general location, recognizing
the family pet or child's toy will easily lead him
to your new home.
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Take all bumper stickers
or identifying items off your car (it will be harder
for the abuser to spot you on the road.)
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Document and report
in a journal all instances when the abuser contacts
you. Be as detailed as possible.
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Get a new social security
number at the Social Security Administration.
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Consider changing
your name, if necessary.
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Call the police or
sheriff's office.
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Stay safe, stay healthy,
stay alive.
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE PROTECTIVE ORDER (DVPO)
Domestic Violence Protective Order (DVPO) is a civil
order that is designed to protect domestic violence
victims and their children from the abuser. A DVPO
is also known as a "50B". The order usually
states that the person charged with assault or threat
of assault can not go near the victim or harass the
victim. If the abuser violates the DVPO, it is a misdemeanor
criminal offense and the abuser can be arrested.
The Protective Order Process:
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The Clerk of Court
Office has the forms. There is no charge and victims
can fill out the forms themselves. If you desire
assistance with filling out the forms and understanding
the DVPO process you can call the local Domestic
Violence Program listed in the resource section
of this book.
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The DVPO compliant
and motion will be reviewed by a judge either in
their chambers or in a courtroom.
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With a judge's signature
a temporary DVPO also called an "Ex Parte"
is issued. This temporary DVPO is an order by the
Court that provides protection until a hearing date
can be set. The abuser has no say in this matter;
they will be heard at the hearing.
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At the DVPO hearing
a judge will hear from both the victim and the accused
abuser. As victim it may be necessary to explain
to the Court your reasons for needing protection.
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If a DVPO is found
to be needed by a judge, the order can continue
for one year and may be renewed from year to year.
Special Thanks to
the Governor's Crime Commission for funding this project
through grant number 044-1-03-1VA-AW-706, an Office
of Justice Programs Violence Against Women Act grant.
The Alliance expresses
its appreciation to the members of the Domestic Violence-Sexual
Assault Response Teams (DV-SART) throughout the 30th
Judicial District.
Sybil Mann
Executive Director
30th Judicial District
Domestic Violence-Sexual Assault Alliance, Inc.
Hal Breakey, Ph.D.
Project Director
30th Judicial District
Domestic Violence-Sexual Assault Alliance, Inc.
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